I travel, therefore I am

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Traveling is an extension of myself. Visiting places that I only dreamed of – cities, towns and villages from the pages of history, architecture and cultural books, even those from works of fiction is an immeasurable pleasure, a privilege that is nearly impossibly to quantify. It edifies my soul. When more than six months have gone by without it, I start feeling caged, trapped within the invisible walls of work. If it was up to me, I would travel every 3 months.

Since it has been nearly a year since that fateful day when I set out to visit Israel, Turkey and Jordan, I am once again pining for those days of immense happiness. Where are you, my love? Come and bestow upon me a glimpse of you. Come visit me in my dreams once again.

Venetian mask miniature from Rome Italy

I remember when I bought this Venetian mask in Rome, Italy. We were half lost on the way to the Trevi fountain. When we finally got there, the amount of people overwhelmed me, it was staggering. It was a miracle that we managed to find a spot to throw coins into the fountain. It’s a bit silly but still it’s a customary, touristy thing to do. I mean, who doesn’t throw a coin into the Trevi fountain when visiting Rome?

Whirling dervishes coaster from Istanbul Turkey

I’m pretty sure we got these Whirling Dervishes coasters from the Grand Bazaar in Istanbul, Turkey while trying to fend off the semi-racist, semi-sexist, flirtatious catcalls from the designated tourist “lurers”. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoyed the attention.. For a while.. Then it got old. The best part: we actually got to see the actual Mevlevi dervish performance in Cappadocia, Turkey! Amazing.

Japanese doll from Kyoto

Ah.. The Land of the Rising Sun. I had a brief but intense love affair with Kyoto. I love everything about Japan (except for the excessive smoking, that was disgusting). I hope to visit her again someday. For now, I got to take home this doll from the Kiyomizu-dera Temple area in Kyoto.

White powdery sand from Boracay Philippines

This was from my first visit to the motherland after I moved to the United States. I’ve been to a lot of beaches around the world but there is nothing like the white, powdery sand of Boracay, Philippines. It literally feels like powder, so fine and so beautiful!

Wooden puppet miniature from Amalfi Coast Italy

This wooden miniature puppet was from Amalfi Coast, Italy. The ten days we spent there were unbelievable. We got to experience the best risotto from a trattoria in one of the villages overlooking the Mediterranean sea, among other things.

Eiffel tower miniature from Paris

From the Eiffel Tower in Paris!

Trinkets from Istanbul TurkeyMore trinkets from Istanbul

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Soft art from Caesarea israel

This was from a gallery in the beautiful coast of Caesarea, Israel. If you think this is oil painting, think again. The Israelis started this form of art called “soft art”. There are only 5 artists in the world who do this kind of thing and they are all Israelis. I bought a small keepsake for our house. In the soft painting technique the artist uses synthetic acrylic fibers in a wide variety of shade as substitute for water or oil. Check out http://artnova.co.il/

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These shoes are made for walking (sort of)

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I normally spend most of my shopping money on clothes. On special occasions, I would binge on expensive bags or jewelries. I finally noticed that I have been neglecting my feet. The amount I spend on shoes have been disproportionately smaller, so this time my goal was to find me some nice shoes that are not insanely expensive. Beware though that my definition of insane/crazy might be different from yours.

Aldo gladiator shoes

I love these gladiator high-heeled shoes from ALDO. It’s so sexy and the attitude derived from wearing them is almost instantaneous. Today, I wore it with the most complementary outfit: my Eton plaid top with studded collar and a shiny snake print leggings. (See below) To balance off the all-around rock and edgy vibe, I partnered it with my super sweet and girly Gold Coast Christy bag from Kate Spade.

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Top: Juicy Couture, Leggings: BCBG, Purse: Kate Spade, Shoes: ALDO

Ooops. You caught me with my shopping bags! Guilty. I wore them walking around downtown San Francisco for over 3 hours. It started to hurt by then so I definitely do not recommend wearing them for a prolonged period of time (as if you don’t already know that).

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Aldo wedge

The second pair of shoes I got from ALDO are these super cute wedge in light seafoam color. I have been obsessing with this color since I discovered them on Kate Spade’s Karolina bow pumps. Unfortunately, the Kate Spade shoes didn’t quite work out for me and to spend over $300 for something that I am forcing to work is just ludicrous so I had to return them. I settled for this wedge instead. It’s even higher than what I would normally wear so I’m not sure how this would feel after several hours but hey, for $35 (from original $90), I can’t really complain much. Besides, they are super cute!

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Dress: Juicy Couture, Shoes: ALDO

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This was taken in front of our house. I had to be careful not to trip in these heels while trying to climb this area. I love how the color of the dress and the wedge complement each other. I suspect that more and more of this seafoam color would make it to my wardrobe because I’m like that when I love (obsessed) something.

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Stripes overload

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This week was a little rough for me. I had difficulty adjusting from the mellow pace of Hawaii back to the hustle and bustle of San Francisco, even though my week was short. This explains why I haven’t been posting lately. I seriously doubt that I can keep up with this blogging thing for a long time. I love doing it though, so I will keep on trying.

Now back to fashion-related posts. Here are some pictures of my past outfits to work. I just realized that they are all stripes! Someday, these brands that I love so much will send me their goodies so I can blog more about them (dreaming), but for now, I guess I will have to keep on hunting for the good deals.

Juicy Couture dress Mango denim jacket

Dress by Juicy Couture, Denim jacket by Mango, Shoes by Cole Haan, SUNNIES BY RAY BAN

Juicy Couture Victorian silk top Kate spade Gold coast bag

Victorian silk top by Juicy Couture, Gold Coast bag by Kate Spade NY, Sunnies by Prada, necklace from Tiffany’s

Forever21 top 7 for all mankind metallic skinny jeans

Top by Forever21, Metallic blue skinny jeans by 7 For all mankind, jacket by brooks brothers

Kate Spade Karolina bow shoes

I found this ogle worthy shoes at Kate Spade today. I’m keeping an eye on it until some form of discount comes along (hopefully soon). I am absolutely loving it!

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My love affair with Hawaii

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Kauai Hawaii

Hawaii. We came back to quench our thirst for unbridled happiness and she didn’t disappoint. So, where do I begin? Depicting Hawaii is about as futile as describing a Rembrandt or a Da Vinci masterpiece to a blind man. It is blasphemous to even attempt this feat. Nevertheless, I will commit such irreverence only because my heart is inflamed with thanksgiving.

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Sunglass: Tory Burch, Swimsuit: ASOS

I will conjure up words to describe one of nature’s magnum opi, even if words are inadequate. Such prose are interspersed with some of the beautiful photos taken while we were there.

Hapuna beach Big Island HawaiiI have visited her many times – in my dreams and in reality, but it is impossible to distinguish one from the other. Being there is celestial. The hand of God is palpable at every turn – mankind has no choice but to accede. Walking her shores is like treading on the edge of the heavens. Your heart, your mind, your soul, they all pulsate at a beat you’ve never heard before – a rhythm so primordial you might as well be in the Garden of Eden.

Waterfalls HawaiiHer beauty is so intoxicating that you’re almost compelled to get drunk with happiness. Starting with the breathtaking Napali coast with its jagged cliffs, turquoise waters and exotic beaches, every scene in Kauai is an ode to the beauty of creation.

Beach front Courtyard Marriott Kauai HawaiiIn Hawaii, all senses are heightened, all colors are exaggerated: the skies bluer, the nights clearer. The wind and the waves become your muse – they whisper love songs as the ocean beckons you to taste her, begging you to find your inner poet so you can compose her a love song.

Kapaa beach Kauai HawaiiComing face to face with this all-consuming wonder, I am reminded of the words of the psalmist:

“When I consider your heavens,
the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars,
which you have set in place,
what is mankind that you are mindful of them,
human beings that you care for them?”

Kapaa Kauai Hawaii 6By the time she was done with me (like on the 7th day), I cried like a baby and begged for us to stay and never, ever leave but I know that it’s better this way. We, mankind, have an inexplicable tendency to deaden our senses when something becomes a routine, even if it’s as absurdly beautiful as this. I never ever wanted to lose that wide-eyed wonder and love for Hawaii so we had to leave.

Kapaa Kauai Hawaii 7Mahalo, Hawaii for more than meeting our needs. We devoured you like the gluttons that we are and you were more than willing to oblige to our plea. I couldn’t be any more grateful for the many moments in my life, such as these, when I felt so alive.

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Scarf/Wrap: From Istanbul

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Sun, sea and sand

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Anini Beach Park, Kauai Hawaii

Anini Beach Park, Kauai Hawaii

This is a beautiful, quiet and family friendly beach in the Northern shore of Kauai, Hawaii. There are even portions of the beach where you could drive your car so close to the water and that’s exactly what we did with our rented convertible. It feels so secluded and private there. Most of the people who are on the beach are renting the homes across from it. Definitely a must-see in Kauai. It is one of my favorite beaches.

Tunnels Beach, Kauai Hawaii

Tunnels Beach, Kauai Hawaii

Best beach for snorkeling. The first time we were there, the ocean was perfect for snorkeling but this time around the waves are way too big. Today, it was more appropriate for surfing. I still love it though. Definitely my favorite beach in Kauai!

Kapaa Beach, Kauai

Kapaa Beach, Kauai

I find the accommodation (and the beach) in Kapaa, eastern shore of Kauai better than the overrated Poipu area. In Poipu, you can’t even swim because of strong waves. You end up paying for really expensive hotel but you can’t even enjoy the ocean (unless of course you’re a surfer). The best restaurants are in Poipu though. There is only one beach in Poipu that is for swimming and snorkeling and expectedly so, it is always jam packed.

Tunnels Beach Kauai Hawaii

Tunnels Beach Kauai Hawaii

With the incredible mountain view, awesome snorkeling spot and beautiful beach, Tunnels Beach is easily my favorite beach in Kauai!

Sunbathers in Kapaa

Sunbathers in Kapaa

Awesome view!

Awesome view!

Perfect way to enjoy the ocean, take a nap and watch the sun go down. Amazing experience. I love you Hawaii!

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Finding my Nemo

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Kapaa kauai hawaiiThird day of no rain and hardly any sunshine. Bothered yet? I once told somebody that there are always two ways of looking at the glass: either it’s half empty or it’s half full. Both observations are correct but only one perspective is good for your soul. Ok, time to apply my “words of wisdom”.

What activity does not require sunshine and is undeterred by rain? Why, snorkeling of course! Problem solved. [I have to disclose that in between waking up early only to fall asleep again after getting inundated with all the social media updates and the numerous napping throughout the day, there's hardly any hour left to cruise around. Ok, I'm exaggerating.]

Tunnels beach kauai hawaiiSo off we drove to the “best snorkeling” beach in Kauai per their travel guide: Tunnels Beach. With the emerald mountains and lush greenery as the backdrop, the beach itself is simply breathtaking.  The majestic mountains have peaks that seem to peer through broken clouds, making it look like they’re emitting billows of volcanic smokes. The water is chilly at first but it only takes a minor moment of acclimation and in no time, you won’t even notice the slight chill.

It was still drizzling when we got there so we decided to wait it out. Every so often, the rain would get harder and when you’re under a pine tree that further exaggerates the drip, it’s no fun really. When it became evident that the rain won’t stop, we took matters into our own hands and decided to suck it up. Seeing a lot of people snorkeling despite the weather encouraged me, so off came the cover ups and all the clothes. The hardest part about this is really all mental – convincing yourself it’s not that bad, taking off all your clothes even though it’s chilly, getting out there in the rain and then putting on the whole snorkeling armor: goggles, fins, and in my case, floater belt! A what!? Yes, yes I grew up with the Pacific ocean as my stomping ground but no, I can’t swim, despite the endless trips to the beach and the constant sunburn during summer. No, we didn’t have swimming lessons and all of that. Blame it on my mother.

Whirlpool in kauai hawaiiSnorkeling is both easy and hard, mostly easy really as long as you have the right equipments. It’s hard because it takes constant reminder to do something that is counter-intuitive: breathing really hard through the mouth using a tube that has to be bitten tightly. But what is there in snorkeling that is normal anyway? You’re pretending to be a fish for crying out loud! Fortunately, my husband was wise enough to buy some bread for the trip so we can feed the fish. That way, they would come after us instead of the other way around. Genius! There was a feeding frenzy once he started throwing morsels of breads. Schools of fish started swarming around us. I started giggling and chuckling (nay, laughing) underwater upon seeing them nearly attacked us. I didn’t even know it’s possible to laugh and snorkel at the same time! You could hear the echo of my laughter underwater. Luckily, no sea water entered my gear while doing this seemingly juvenile thing. After the frenzy, what do you think would happen next? Well, their digestive system works just like ours. Right then and there, I saw a fish pooped for the first time. I was right behind the pooper! Bah. How rude is this punk!

The marine life is so beautiful, I was completely mesmerized. It was like being in a dreamland – a gorgeous, almost ethereal scenery. Being a stranger in this otherworldly habitat, I couldn’t help but gasp with awe when I see them blink their eyes or breathe through the gills or swim directly towards me. At one point I saw a white fish bit my husband’s finger while he was feeding them. Greedy, that one! I started laughing hard again. I enjoyed myself so much that I started following (more like stalking really) a school of beautiful yellow fish without even realizing that I ventured too deep into the water. When I saw a huge cliff in the water and noticed how unmistakable the depth difference between two sides is, it finally dawned on me that I was way off course. For a person who can’t swim, it’s no bueno! Yes, despite the floater belt.

It started raining hard. I only noticed this because something was tickling my back. It didn’t bother me except that we had our cameras and bags under a canopy of drippy pine trees so we had to come out of the water. Once those were moved, we jumped right back in. Time went by so quickly and before we knew it, we were there for 3 hours. I was very thankful that the sun was not out that day or we would have suffered from sunburn. There’s definitely going to be an encore to this!

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Waioli Huiia, oldest church in Kauai

On our way back to the hotel, I realized why I was so happy – for there, in the turquoise waters of the Tunnels Beach, in between the cliff and the underwater cave, I found my beautiful Nemo! He was not the same fish as in the movie but he was my Nemo!

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Holy crab

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Hawaiian orchid

Hawaiian orchid after the rain

I am beginning to think that April is not the best time to visit Kauai. It’s been raining on and off since we got here and I’m beginning to lose hope that the sun will show itself up within the next couple of days. Ironically, back in  California, the weather has been perfect.

Kauai hawaii in a convertibleSo yesterday, we decided to drive all over the island since it’s still a bit too chilly to swim. My body hasn’t quite felt the warm Pacific ocean yet and my bathing suits are itching to be used. I’m hoping I will be able to do that before we leave.

Driving in a convertible in kauai hawaiiAnyway, the fact that it wasn’t scorching made it a perfect day to drive around in a convertible. We drove to the western most part of the island up until where the military restricted zone starts. There is a remote beach beyond the paved road that is accessible only by a 4×4 vehicle, which we don’t have, so we headed back to the town of Waimea. We then drove up to the Waimea canyon towards the end of that winding road which has one of the best lookouts in Kauai, the Kalalau viewpoint. It’s supposed to have the Napali coast as the backdrop.

Napali coast hawaiiOn a clear day, it looks like this (above) but this time around, it looks like this (below)

Kalalau valley viewpoint kauai hawaii fogged up

All of the motion sickness tolerated on the way up and down the very winding road was just wasted for a view of the fog, the fog that I experience on a day-to-day basis in San Francisco. See how foggy it is below!

Waimea canyon drive foggy

I should have taken the motion sickness pill. What made it worse is the fact that the passenger seat of our muscle car is super low.  For some reason, this Mustang did not have any way to control the height of the passenger seat. It is so low I couldn’t see a thing besides the dashboard. It was making me really dizzy. We had to make do with the beach towels to boost my seat level. If I hadn’t seen the Napali coastline from the air and from the water, I would have been totally devastated!

Beachside lounging kauai hawaiiLuckily, by the time we were back at the eastern shore, the sun started to grace us with its presence so we were able to lounge by the beach. The water is still a bit chilly for my liking so the bathing suit I have been wearing all day long didn’t see any action once again. Despite the gloomy weather, I have to admit that I thoroughly enjoyed the experience. There were moments when we were driving around and there was literally nobody in sight. The feel of the fresh air in my face and the Hawaiian music in the background is so therapeutic it feels like nature is giving me a massage!

Alaskan king crab dolphins restaurant poipu kauai hawaiiFor dinner, we decided to try this seafood restaurant in Poipu called “Dolphin Restaurant”. I opted for the Alaskan king crab with steamed rice and my husband chose the local catch of the day, a fish called “Paka paka”. Holy crab!! This crab is to die for, truly succulent, sweet and fresh. Hands down, the best meal I’ve ever had in Kauai or Hawaii for that matter! The butter they are using as a dip is a perfect complement to the fresh meat and the virgin pina colada is something out of this world. I don’t know what the heck I was thinking after eating a pound of that meat and the thousand-calorie pina colada but I still ordered hot chocolate brownie for dessert. I was half asleep by the time I finished my meal and completely passed out on the way back to the hotel, a clear victim of crab coma!

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Aloha!

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Prada sunglasses

Aloha! We are back in the island paradise of Kauai, Hawaii for a long overdue vacation and I’m elated to report that it’s as dreamy as I remember it. This time around, I opted for a convertible rental car so we could realize some magical movie moments (at least that’s the idea) – beautiful cinematography for a film shot in an exotic location with the characters driving around in a convertible car via a winding road, with the leading lady’s scarf trailing behind as it dances with the wind and flirts with the sun, her big sunglasses the only thing shielding her. I prefer to have this moment realized in Tuscany or Amalfi Coast but Hawaii will also do.

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Prada sunglasses, Forever21 dress

This is our second time in Kauai. I have to say that it is probably my favorite Hawaiian island. The Big Island is also quite good but I think I have my heart set on this one. For this vacation, I chose a hotel that is not too fancy but is literally beach front, as opposed to a hoity-toity location that is way too big and whose ocean is too rough for swimming. I love the location of our room as it is directly in front of the Pacific ocean and we are just steps away from the warm water.

Aston Islander on the beach Wailua hawaiiI realized now that I drank that pina colada way too fast and now, my head is spinning but don’t you worry, I still can write under this condition. Heh.

Aston islander on the beach kauaiIt started raining this afternoon but it really didn’t do much to spoil the mood. As I write this, I am finding inspiration in the musical sound of the waves and the pitter-patter of the light rain as it seemingly exchanges pleasantries with the Hawaiian birds. Every few words or so, I would steal a glance at the beautiful ocean that is directly in front of me, afraid that I’d blink and find she’s no longer there. Hawaii’s famous rainbows are probably going to enthrall us once more later, if only to complete this fantasy of mine. I could definitely get used to this.

Aston islander on the beach kauai hawaii

I love the flowers they use to make these Hawaiian leis. They have such a beautiful scent to them. It reminds me of my mom’s garden. What a lovely fragrance indeed!

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Shoelander

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Aldo brown boots

Aldo brown boots

Did anybody notice yet another movie title reference? I’ll give you a hint: think Ben Stiller. So anyway, the previous blog I did about my bags became my most popular post ever so I thought I better give my shoes the same amount of spotlight! Btw, thank you guys for loving it! I’m inspired to do more of these beautiful posts.

I probably don’t have as much shoes as I have bags (the husband would disagree), but one thing is for sure: I don’t spend as much on shoes. My favorite brand is Cole Haan because of how comfortable they are despite the height of the heel.

Cole Haan Air Kennedy buckle boot black suede

Cole Haan Air Kennedy buckle boot black suede

The secret lies in the Nike Air technology. Yup, that is the same technology used in Nike running shoes. Of course my sarcastic husband suggested that I should just buy Nike if it is the Nike Air technology I am after. After all, they are cheaper. Grin.

Ninewest orange gladiator sandals

Ninewest orange gladiator sandals

These are probably only half of my shoe collection. Did you notice that most of them have high heels, including the flip-flops? Heh. I probably own 2 flat shoes (that I never ever wear) and a handful of running and hiking shoes.

Cole Haan Oxford bootie

Cole Haan Oxford booties

I love these booties! They are perfect for Fall and Spring. You can easily layer these with tights or wear as is, with leggings or skinny jeans and voila! Instantly sexy.

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Cole Haan yellow peep toe sandals

I bought these yellow sandals at the outlet. They are perfect for spring and summer. Love the beautiful colors!

Cole Haan long brown boots

Cole Haan long brown boots

Believe me when I say that these boots are made for walking! They are super comfortable. I actually used to run after the commuter train using these shoes. I love them and I wish I did not hesitate and bought them in black as well.

Gladiator wedge

I absolutely love these gladiator-style wedge sandals. They are super chic and comfy. I got them from the Philippines!

White wedge

NineWest white wedge sandals

Ninewest red pump

Ninewest red pump

I love these red pumps! It’s not going to get an award for comfort but it sure is gorgeous! Sometimes, a little pain is needed.

Ninewest cobalt pump

Ninewest cobalt pump

Ok. These are not the most comfortable shoes. They actually hurt.. But I super love the colors, specially when juxtaposed with another bright color such as pink and orange. I’ll show you some sample use below.

Cole Haan black leather patent pump

Cole Haan black leather patent pump

Cole Haan snake print brown boots

Cole Haan snake print brown boots

And here are some sample outfits to go with these super adorable shoes. Click on the picture to see a bigger view!

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Ode to my bags

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Kate Spade Louis Vuitton Burberry Cole Haan bags 4So I was cleaning out my closet then decided to count how many bags I have instead, just for the heck of it (and it’s more fun). Because they are so darned beautiful and I’m feeling more creative this weekend, I got a little bit carried away with my camera and out came a poem. These are probably only half of my bag collections. Where the heck do I store them? I do not know. I keep nagging the husband to build me the dream walk-in closet but alas, unless one of my stock options from previous startups take off any time soon, that closet might remain just that: a dream. Here goes nothing:

Kate Spade Gold Coast ChristyOh thine beauty,
Thine indescribable beauty,
Quilt and leather and patent,
Kate Spade Gold Coast GeorginaChains and gold hardware
Shiny and matte,
Brown, fuchsia, pink, magenta
Aqua, mustard, white, multi-colored

You all had me at hello
A sale or a special occasion beckoned me to come say hi gorgeous,
To touch, to hold
To own, to dream
To each, a story awaits

Louis Vuitton Figheri PM Damier AzurAn anniversary gift
A valentine’s expression of unending love,
A celebration of a new job
Kate Spade Moonlit soiree sonia 2More celebration of yet another new job
A Christmas present
Louis Vuitton Alma Damier 2A birthday gift,
A pick-me-upper

Kate Spade bagDiamonds are a girl’s best friends
But these beautiful works of art might just be the
next best thing.

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Brands: Louis Vuitton, Burberry, Kate Spade, Cole Haan

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The perks of being Asian

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The perks of being a wallflowerThe title of this blog was inspired by the indie, coming-of-age movie, “The Perks of Being a Wallflower”. It’s the Y and Z generations’ nod to the classic 80s films of the same genre – “Sixteen Candles” and “St. Elmo’s Fire” to name a few.

So back to the blog…I never really realized how much diversity there is in this world until I moved to US. Case in point, Northern California. It is a hodgepodge of many different race and cultures (whilst still maintaining a distinct American vibe). On the contrary, the society where I was born into is such a homogeneous one (albeit not boring, I must clarify). Mostly everyone’s Catholic or religious and conservative, hardly anybody’s gay (or at least they’re all hiding in the closet), and everybody’s Asian (at least where I grew up).

The difference between that and where I’m at now is night and day! I love being part of these two distinct and great cultures because it enables me to see things multi-dimensionally, giving me a unique vantage point. Also I get to pick and choose the best of both worlds. Nowadays, I appreciate this background more than ever. Being Asian is a perk so here’s a nod to that other heritage of mine.

What exactly are some of the perks of being Asian:

Thai sticky rice dessert1. White rice! Yay. My mom would disown me if she finds out that I’m eating brown rice these days. (I have to disclose though that I only really eat that brown stuff when I’m quite desperate for a quick diet, such as 2 weeks before a trip to Hawaii.) You see, we don’t eat that kind of stuff in Asia. It’s a white man’s invention. Back home, we get to eat this 5 times a day: breakfast, snack between breakfast and lunch, lunch, snack between lunch and dinner, dinner. Even desserts have rice! Ever had that Thai sticky rice dessert with mango? YUM!

2. You never have to work out a day in your life. And still stay skinny… Despite eating all those rice in #1.. I’m not saying this is healthy though :)

3. Agelessness. I didn’t mean this to say that Asians don’t age. It’s just that we age much slower than our counterparts – by this I mean that the physical manifestation of aging is much more subtle and disguised. Of course another contributing factor is our generally small stature. While this has its own perks, it is actually disadvantageous at times too. Like not being taken more seriously because of looking too young. I keep getting carded at bars and to this day, people always mistake me as being in the very early 20s. I am actually 60 years old by now. Haha. Kidding. Last year, while touring Turkey, teenagers and young men were hitting on us all over Turkey. I’m like, dude, I could be your grandma! (P.S. I don’t really talk like that)

4. The awesome fashion bloggers and designers. I am blown away by the number of great fashion bloggers and designers who are Asian (and women at that!). Here are some of my favorites:

Patricia chang fall dress

Photo Credit: patriciachang.net

Photo Credit: patriciachang.net

Patricia Chang – She’s an up-and-coming designer from New York. She just opened her online store. Check it out at patriciachang.net. I absolutely love her fantasy and girly, modern style. She interned for Marchesa and it clearly shows in the details of her gorgeous collections. I will start saving up to buy one of her dresses. I hope it’s not too pricey :D

Gary Pepper vintage dress

Photo Credit: garypeppervintage.com

Gary Pepper Vintage I love her whimsical world! Need I say more? Check out her blog and Instagram account @garypeppergirl

Peony Lim blog 1

Photo Credit: peonylim.com

Photo Credit: peonylim.com

Photo Credit: peonylim.com

Peony Lim I love her classic and polished look. So stunning!

Photo Credit: wendyslookbook.com

Photo Credit: wendyslookbook.com

Wendy’s lookbook I love how put together she always looks and her fearless use of colors

5. You get to have 12 uncles, 12 aunties and 200 cousins.. And nobody questions this!? Haha. Kidding

hiro6. The genius syndrome. Everybody assumes you’re good with Math and you’re smart. Not necessarily untrue but it’s a generalization, a stereotype. I think this stems from the fact that Asian parents put heavy emphasis on education and they push hard for kids to do really good in school and in everything that they do for that matter. In most Asian countries, scholarly competitions are fierce, starting from a young age. This is most likely because there are so many people in Asia and so, in order to stand out and succeed amidst this number, education is the key – sometimes the only key when you’re coming from poverty. I remember coming home from school in 4th grade and announcing I’ve fallen from my usual 2nd place in the honor roll to 4th place. My mother refused to attend the awarding ceremony and sent my older cousin instead. She was so disappointed. It didn’t damage me that much but obviously, it affected me enough as I still keep talking about it many years later. But who’s disappointed now, mom, after you received that brand new car as Christmas gift from me? Heh.

7. You get to speak multiple languages and you get to love America and Asia, equally. Self-explanatory!

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Sons of Abraham

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So Hagar bore Abram a son, and Abram gave the name Ishmael to the son she had borne – Genesis 16:1

Abraham was a hundred years old when his son Isaac was born to him – Genesis 21:5

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An Arab merchant inside Petra, Jordan. He has such intense eyes

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A hippie Jew during the morning of Sabbath in Machane Yehuda market, Jerusalem, IsraeL

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A Hassidic boy playing inside the Jewish Quarter in Old City Jerusalem, Israel

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Our Bedouin guide and one of the tourists in our group inside a tent in Wadi Rum, Jordan

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Arab merchants in front of Damascus Gate in the Old City Jerusalem, Israel

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A Bedouin camel handler in Petra, Jordan

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A Hassidic toddler crawling inside the Roman ruins in Jewish Quarter Old City, Jerusalem

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A mischievous Jordanian boy near Wadi Rum, Jordan

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A perfect day

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I’m wearing

  • Burberry ivy hat
  • BCBG Leather jacket
  • Cole Haan bag
  • Ray-ban wayfarer sunglasses

Hokkaido scallop ramen and fried calamari

Drove to the city on this gloomy spring day
Because, aye, I’m craving for a ramen so divine
Like the gods themselves concocted them
A mouth-watering Hokkaido scallop noodles and calamari
All tentacles, mind you!

It was so good, I ate until my stomach hurt
Gluttony, gluttony cries my rebelling belly,
But as with everything, the mouth emerged victorious
As macaroons came tumbling down
Hazelnul, hazelnut and more hazelnut

Car’s battery went dead in the parking lot
So off I went and burn more holes in thine wallet
While my love waited for the battery guys
I rushed, nay, I ran so fast before my love had a change of heart

Then hubby says “I’m not really into scarf”
So off I went and sequestered the Jordanian wrap,
My gift from Jerusalem
Oui! More pour moi, pour moi says my chirpy heart
Oh yes, indeed, a perfect day it was!

The End

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In the footsteps of the patriarchs

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Temple Mount Jerusalem Israel Dome of the RockI have been longing to write more about my epic first trip to Israel but it’s been a struggle to produce something I really like. I wrote several articles about it already (see below), but there are so many stories still to tell. That trip is so important to me that I don’t want to write anything that is not coming from my heart. Today, I finally found the elusive inspiration.

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Second Temple model, The Israel Museum, Jerusalem

Israel is so rich in history that it is impossible not to be awestruck. Every corner of its land is ripe with culture, folklore and stories, both divine and human. Being there is literally, like jumping through the pages of the Bible and history books. The land and the culture are so ancient, it’s not even funny.

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SECOND TEMPLE MODEL, THE ISRAEL MUSEUM, JERUSALEM

Just think for a moment the endless possibilities: among many things, you could be walking on the same piece of land where the patriarch Abraham, some 4,000 years ago, brought his son Isaac to sacrifice to the G-d whom he worships; the same place as the Holy of Holies of the First and Second Jewish temples. Ok, while this is impossible because Mount Moriah is in the center of the Dome of the Rock under Arab rule and thus, inaccessible, you get what I’m saying. It is exhilarating, at least for me.

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Jordan River, Israel

Israel’s contributions to mankind, past, present and future are immense and immeasurable, to say the least. They essentially changed the course of mankind. The birth of one Jew even divided the western calendar into two time periods: B.C. and A.D. Nations after nations attempted to annihilate its people and dwellings, and yet time and time again, Israel is preserved.

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Jewish Quarter Old City, Jerusalem – This is a replica of the menorah from the second temple before it was razed to the ground and ransacked by the romans

No other nation has been dispersed to all corners of the earth, nearly decimated in the gas chambers of Europe, emerged from the horrors of the said genocide and then re-established on the same land of his forefathers, with his mother tongue (Hebrew), culture and religion completely intact, some 2,000 years later. Is this a miracle? Does the sun rise in the east? The very mathematical improbability of Israel’s survival is a miracle in itself!

Passover and easter Jerusalem IsraelIsrael’s very name bears the name of G-d and is so pregnant with meaning: YisraEl – “He who struggles with G-d” and struggled he did for thousands and thousands of years! Of course I don’t expect everyone to believe all of these. Au contraire, I actually expect most people to disbelieve. Heck, if the peoples of the Ancient Near East managed to distrust and lose faith, despite witnessing the parting of the sea, the raising of the dead, the pillar of fire, the death of all firstborn and countless other miracles, what more of the generations of the world that came thousands of years later who only heard or read of Israel’s Adonai from someone else?

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